There are no justified reasons for emotional abuse. Unfortunately, such
kind of violence is natural for human beings. The cause of this behavior is our
inner aggression. Very often people try to avoid emotional abuse, but there are
also moments when it exists. And at such moments we can speak about two types
of people. Some of them allow emotional abuse, while others suffer from it.
There can be thousands of reasons for emotional abuse. Problems in
childhood, maybe even physical or emotional abuse by parents; wrong nurture; social groups
where such behavior is natural. As I've said, the main reason for emotional
abuse is we ourselves, because some people behave in such a way, while others
allow them to do it.
Emotional abuse is a kind of humiliation. And this humiliation is a sign
of the survival instinct. Natural selection makes people do everything to
survive, even if we don't speak about the annihilation of others. So the
emotional abuse is a sign of the fact that Humanity can't forget its animal nature.
We should remember that we are very close to the wild world, but we must behave
like human beings.
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