I agree with this video. When guys communicate, they look serious. I think, that they must to be more emotional. On the oher hand women should be more reserved.
Relationships can be different. But I agree with you that men always try to solve different problems themselves, it's their nature. Anyway, men sometimes follow women's advice. I think you heard: a man is a head, a woman is a neck
If a woman is wise, she never imposes her opinion on her husband, she just drives him to the solution. And her husband will feel that it is his own decision.
Seagull, I think you are not honest. Oftentimes, men don't know how to solve problems because they are have a lot of doubts and are afraid of taking on repsonsibility. Women, when they talk, communicate, have more diverse reasons and aims. Luck, I do think that men often follow women's advice but it depends on their relationships.
Yes, all depends on relationships. A young guy is more likely to listen to his mother's advice and not to the one of his girlfriend. Communication between a mother and a son is of several decades' length, and in fact this type of communication is special. Perhaps, this is the only case when men will come to a woman (I mean to Mother) for a piece of advice and a good portion of condolence.
That's exactly what I'm talking about Men never want to follow women's advice because they like solving problems themselves. I don't mean it's bad, I mean it's a fact
I hate agreeing all the time while talking to my female-friends. I always tell them that men are born to solve problems, but not to emphatize. And I don't call my female-friends only having some pragmatic goals. Sometimes I really need to be listened to and nothing more, becasue in most cases I know what to do and how to settle my own problems.
"I always tell them that men are born to solve problems" sometimes I think it's the motto of your life! And what are women born for, in your opinion?! I dislike it very much when you, males, begin to talk like that. As if you were the smartest creatures on this planet and females had been created not to let your species extinct.
Rofl!!!!! Completely agree with you, Asya. Every time a man states he was born to rule the situation and to solve the problems, I recollect a joke about a wife who works day and night and the husband lying on the sofa and resting: "Suppose a war broke out? I can't be tired!"
P.S. Love you, guys! I didn't mean anything bad =)
haha))) it's so funny.. but this IS true))) Communication between men and women is always different. And to some extend I disagree with that woman: when I communicate with my male-friends, I don't give them practical solution of this or that problem all the time. Some of them really need it sometimes so they can listen to my talking for hours. Others just try to shut me up as they think that girls simply CANNOT solve a problem, and listening to their advice is just a waste of time: because MEN can solve everything by themselves:) Well, I can't but agree with it: anyway they act as they want to and as they think they should act:) As for women, sometimes we need something more than just "ohh..honey..it's so bad.." But just sometimes:) In most cases these words really work
